Everybody wants stuff. Some, quite a lot, some less, but we all want and need something, be it a relationship, a successful career, healthy body, nice house, travel etc.etc. I believe it's good to want things, to always be reaching for something, because staying in motion keeps us alive. It's like you have got to learn to appreciate what you have, meaning be happy where you are, but always striving for more, always growing and developing. But now, let me ask you this:" Have you ever wondered why you want what you want?"
It's pretty simple. You want what you want only because you believe you will feel better in having of it. And of course it makes sense that reaching your goals is a satisfying feeling, but what if I tell you that you don't have to wait till it comes to fruition, till your dreams becomes physically tangible and show up in your now reality, to be happy. What if I tell you that you can be happy now. That you can be happy before that perfect boyfriend/ girlfriend appears, before you reach your career heights, before you start living in that imaginary house of yours, before you get that " fuck, I'm so hot" body.
Because look, if you make your circumstances responsible for your happiness, you will always feel a bit empty and lost. You will have that feeling of never enough. And I know I said it's good to always be reaching for something, but the difference between always reaching and never having enough is, in the first one, you are happy before the circumstance happens and in the later one, you need the circumstance to happen before you can be happy, and that's a very short lived feeling of satisfaction.
Take responsibility in your hands and be happy now, even if your life is not exactly where you want it to be. If you keep complaining and bitching to everybody how life is so unfair to you, than you are doing yourself a big disservice and keeping yourself stuck in that sucky vibration. I know when shit happens it's pretty difficult not to be noticing it, and it's even more difficult not to talk about it. Because what else are we gonna talk about if we don't complain? Listen around and let me know how much good stuff and how much shit you hear during the day? There is always somebody guilty at how our lives turned out. But if we keep blaming our parents, boyfriends, girlfriends about our low quality lives there is not much we can do to change. Thats why the best and of course not the easiest is to start looking at yourself and asking yourself: " What can I do to change this situation?", or one of my favourite ones is :" What can I learn from this?". Because, really, if you teach yourself to look at everything as a lesson, then there are no negative situations, only learning experiences, to help you become what you have asked to become. So if you don't like the situation change it, or if you can't seem to change it for any reason, as I don't have time, blah blah blah, can't listen to that shit, than stop complain at least.
I don't mean to be rude guys, I myself am no better. I complain a lot, but more aware I become of it, easier it becomes to let it go and understand that it's not helping me in anyway. First thing to a better life is better thinking, meaning do your best at focusing on the good stuff, and let the bad stuff slide by as an old newspaper swept away by the wind. Nobody needs that shit. That's old news!
So if everything we want is because we think we will feel better in having of it, and it's up to us, how we feel, why don't feel good now? Because you know what is the fastest way to get to where you want to be? Be happy now. We didn't come here to struggle through our lives and prove our worth. We came here to love and share our love with others, and there is nothing better you can give to the other person than your pure presence. Want things just for fun, not as means to an end. Don't fast forward your life always in expectance for better life, because there is a big chance you might just miss it. Enjoy the good days, don't fight the bad days, and most of all be easy on yourself, what is meant to be yours will be yours at the best time possible.
Love
Kris
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